Wednesday, March 26, 2008

Early Relocation Days

The past few days have been a whirlwind. Jetlag has hit hard and prevented us from sleeping through the entire night. Some highlights:

BANK ACCOUNT: Surprised how easy it was to set one up – if you speak the language. Fortunately, relo services helped us. It was quick, easy, and cheap – though we still wonder what type of account we really have?! For a mere 10RMB (~$1.50/yr), you too can have a Chinese bank account. You can also use any bank’s ATM machine for only 20cents versus the $2-$3 fee in the US. Wells Fargo allows us to transfer money for free to the Agriculture Bank of China, which happens to be ~2 blocks from our apartment.

DRIVERS: Intel provides us with drivers, which is a great thing since we have absolutely NO desire to drive in Shanghai. It’s insane with streets full of the 20 million or so people and people turning left from the middle lane. We’ll have one full time driver and one part-time given our varying work site locations and hours. We asked for an English driver who doesn’t smoke. We talked with 4 drivers, 3 of whom smoke and only 1 could speak broken English. We chose the latter gentleman and a very eager and pleasant driver who we will learn to communicate with. Both know there is no smoking in cars. We didn’t pick the driver with the 2nd rated English ability (managed Hello, How are you, and Goodbye) because his car smelled like an ashtray. The last one had the best car and didn’t smoke, but lives 1 hour away and didn’t want to work early hours.

APARTMENT VISIT: Yesterday we got our apartment keys and gym registration. While we were unloading our suitcases, they went to the local police station to get us our neighborhood registration. We love the fact that people will run errands with us, versus us standing around for 1 hour understanding 1 minute of what transpires in the translation service. That’s pretty much how the apartment check-in went too. Our relo assistant went through some laundry list with the apartment manager while we stood around getting a 1 second summary of a 5 minute conversation. After a while, we started doing our own thing – moving furniture around and unpacking. The apartment itself is really nice. We’re pleased with the location – right off a main shopping street. We also like the apartment a lot, even though it’s a bit sterile with minimal furniture and no pictures. Tomorrow we’ll visit Ikea and Carrefour to load up on basics so we can officially move in. Kind of hard to live there without soaps, toilet paper, plates/cups, etc.

HEALTH CHECK: Can you say assembly line?! This is a requirement for immigration. The whole “adventure” took a mere 2 hours for EKG, blood, ultrasound, chest x-ray, eye test, and general exam (including a “surgery check” to make sure we didn’t have scars on our bodies). Imagine 20 male and female strangers in robes – with no tops/bras on underneath, just slacks – being moved from room to room. Even the sitting area for each room was funny. One person goes in, everyone shifts down a seat. It was all ok until the very last 2 rooms which freaked Lila out, because very rude doctors yelling at her in Chinese. For example, Lila has had her blood pressure checked about 3x in the past month. It’s been great each time. Today, the doctor yelled at her “Relax! Relax!” because her blood pressure was so high. Karl loved the rude doctor who performed the ultrasound, shoving him onto his side so she could ram the sensor into his rib. Aside from those 2 rooms, we think it went well. We did learn that doctors’ unintelligible handwriting is a universal phenomenon.

FOOD: Hotel living has given us a chance to check out Shanghai’s famous culinary delights. With the help of our favorite travel guide, Frommers, we have embarked on best of Shanghai dining. Highlights include: The Door (Best restaurant Architecture), Crystal Jade (Best Chinese Dumplings), Element Fresh (Best healthy lunch), and tonight we will try Lapis Lapis (Best all around restaurant). Everything has been great since this portion of the trip is covered by the company’s expense reimbursement plan!

Monday, March 24, 2008

Shanghai Arrival

We made it to Shanghai today! This is a great accomplishment given a four hour delay – in the plane / on the ground – to fix the food elevator at San Francisco Airport. The flight itself was a mere 12 hours; not too bad. We love the Shanghai airport’s efficiency. The immigration line was super quick. They have a voting system so you can rate your first interaction with Chinese airport staff. Can you imagine giving a US Immigration Officer a “Greatly satisifed” smiley face rating?!
Our six pieces of luggage were among the first off the carousel. We thought surely we’d be hit up by customs officers toting the suitcases and 4 pieces of carry on luggage we had. Alas! We made it through without any issue. Two drivers were waiting for us from the moving company. They insisted on helping us push our carts to the cars. Imagine a rather frail man pushing a cart with 4 American size suitcases up a mini ramp. Almost like a predictable B movie, the cart toppled over…twice. Hopefully no wine broke! We’re now on our way to the hotel for a few days why the finishing touches are made to our apartment.

“It’s weird not having anything on my calendar. It’s even more weird that we’re in a traffic jam at 9pm.” –Karl

Sunday, March 23, 2008

March 23: Move + Easter + Birthday

In following with tradition from the past 4 years, we decided to spend Lila's birthday on an airplane. The week leading up to the 23rd departure made us wish we had yet another week to get ready. It was unbelievable that we actually managed to get moved out of the house, after 3 days with the movers and 2 days packing on our own. Who knew we had so much?! Our house has been rented to a couple expecting their first child any day. Friends have bought our TV, receiver, kitchen cart, and a few other small items. Our cars are with Roadsport in Campbell, where Clint (car broker) will sell them for us. Nabeel & Asha are holding a few suitcases for our future US trips, and Mark is bringing 2 over for us in a couple of days. About 2000 lbs of our life is at sea, and the remainder in storage.
We moved to a hotel on Wednesday, then to the city on Friday. Karl arranged Friday night dinner at Michael Mina for Lila's birthday. We had a great time - highly recommend the restaurant! On Saturday, Karl went out on the bay with Jacques, while Lila was back at the house running last minute errands and made time for her last hamburger with Mel & Hai. Later that night, a few friends met us in the city for dinner and drinks. It was a great way to celebrate Lila's birthday and our send-off.
The trip was also a good forcing function for Lila to finally get her new drivers license and passport. She's traveling to China as Lila Ibrahim Liebat. It's interesting to have a middle name after so many years. Hopefully the matching last names will make things easier for us as we travel around - and of course, Karl is thrilled.

Friday, March 14, 2008

What were we thinking?!

Karl’s friends had a surprise happy hour party for him on Wednesday, while many of them were in town for training. Karl thought he was going to grab drinks for an hour with Mark Parker and Lila. Meanwhile, ~30 Intel friends gathered at Faultline to wish him a happy deportation.
On Thursday, Lila kicked off the Santa Clara Women at Intel's 2008 speaker session with a 45 minute speech, followed by Q&A. Karl showed up in the audience - much to Lila's surprise. The first question dealt with balancing work and family life. After a brief response, Lila called on Karl to answer. That will teach him to show up at Lila's talks!
The big news of the week, however, was that reality hit. What were we thinking...agreeing to move to China?! We just got married. We just bought a house. We're finally settling into somewhat of a routine. Who will live in our house and buy our cars? How will we make new friends, learn a new culture/language/city, and adjust to living overseas? Lila's been through it before, but it's definitely different being older, more set in her ways, a home-owner, and wife. There's so much to do in the next few weeks....

Sunday, March 2, 2008

All-in-One Party: House Warming + Going Away

What great fun! We somehow managed to pull off our “all in one” party last night, even with Lila arriving from Shanghai yesterday and dinner plans with friends last night. Around 100 of our co-workers and friends joined us – from southern California, Folsom/Sacramento, and around the Bay Area. We started a bit early (4pm) since many friends were coming from out of town, with the last group leaving around midnight.
The menu included barbecue from Andys, baklawa from Shatilla bakery (Michigan), and Ohio’s famous chocolate buckeyes. Thanks to our moms for exporting the latter 2 items to California. Special thanks to our friends for helping us celebrate the new home and new move. It was a very fun celebration for us. Unfortunately, just as we're figuring out how to host parties, it's time to leave.

Friday, February 29, 2008

Leap Year News

Happy Leap Year! We managed to squeeze in quite a lot with the extra day this year. In fact, this was a big week for new jobs in the Liebat household.
Lila just returned from her 2nd trip to Shanghai this year. The first was during the worst snow storm in China's history...or at least the last 15 years. The shuttle bus in Shanghai, for example, was running 4 hours late one day. In the US, we call that a "snow day" and take the entire day off! :) Lila has been busy adjusting to her new role, including a reorganization of the team. This week was the first time her new staff all got together to start planning for their future. She has come back energized and optimistic about the work year ahead. Also, a bit frantic since our house warming / we're moving "all in one " party is tomorrow night. Fortunately, Karl has helped with a lot of the planning.
Karl has just accepted a new role this week. We'd write it here, but probably better to let his new boss officially announce it first! We are both excited how well the position suits his interests and experience.
We have decided our move date as March 23 -- a mere 3 weeks away!?! We also finally got our authorization and were contacted by the moving company. Not quite sure why it's taken SO long. We decided to rent our house through a property management company to keep it simple for us. Still haven't sorted out the cars. Want a convertible or 2?!
More to follow post-party.

Sunday, February 24, 2008

Random Updates

THE BIG MOVE
Can’t believe we’re moving in a month! There’s still much to do with the house, cars, etc. We decided to rent our house through a property management company. While we weren’t thrilled about the fees, we felt it was the safest way to take care of our house especially as we’ve not lived there long enough to know its idiosyncrasies. We’ve already done a few small things to prepare the house for renting – paint touch-ups, bathroom fan, railing downstairs, etc. Now we can focus on the cars and belongings.

We’ve selected March 23 or 24 as our fly-out date. Yes, this is right on my birthday. After 3 years of birthdays on airplanes, it feels only appropriate that our Shanghai move would happen around then! This will give us a chance to pack up the week before, do a going away dinner with friends, and arrive in Shanghai in time for our health check and immigration paperwork.

VDAY = VIRUS DAY
Karl planned a wonderful date night on Valentine’s Day, but wasn’t feeling well. We were at Mantra having a fabulous fixed menu. When the entrĂ©e was served, he looked at me and said "we must leave now." When we got home, he gave me a beautiful orchid, a spicy chocolate bar, and a card. A few days later I gave him a card and medicine. Quite the romantic Vday – our first one as a married couple?! Karl was very sick for about 4 days, but has fortunately recuperated.

FAMILY LIEBAT VISIT
Mom Mary (Karl’s mom) and Paul (bro) arrived on Friday evening for a short visit. We went out in Palo Alto on Friday night for Tapas. Saturday we drove to San Francisco for the famous farmers market at the Ferry Terminal where we "sampled" breakfast by visiting all the stalls. We later continued on to Sonoma to pick up our last wine shipment and suspended our Wine Club. Did you know Ledson no longer does weddings?!? As always, we had a fabulous time up North. For dinner, we drove back and went to Manresa – a Michelin/Zagat rated restaurant in Los Gatos. Nabeel & Asha came by Sunday morning before we all left. The weather was terrible – pouring the majority of their stay. Despite the weather, it was fun to catch up over a quick weekend.
Paul and I get to see each other again at a conference in Vegas in April!

PARTY!
On 3/1, we will have a "House Warming/We’re Moving" party. We’re expecting around 80 people. We decided to rent heat lamps and have the food catered so we can enjoy the time with our friends. Karl’s threatening to put garage sale tags on everything!

AND WORK.
Work is going ok for both of us. Karl is deciding between 2 job opportunities in Asia, and hopes to have a decision soon. I have just announced a re-structuring of my team. I’m on my way to Shanghai to have the first staff meeting. When I combined the teams, I had 17 people reporting to me. It’s now down to a more manageable 10, including 2 who I brought in. We are working the next level of details and plan to roll out next week. I’m anxious to get this all done and move forward!